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Irresponsible Kids

I snapped this picture at my kids' elementary school today to show the prevalence of irresponsible kids who toss their jackets on the playground and forget to pick up.  Then, lo and behold, on our way back home Johanna told me she left her jacket on the aqua table outside before PE!

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Gender Stereotypes

Around 9 a.m. yesterday morning, Johanna and I were having breakfast when I asked her and Elin to pick their most favorite emoji erasers.  On the count of 3, we all put our fingers on our top 1-2.  When I asked Johanna why she thought her favorite emoji with hearts on her face was a female, she said, "because girls fall in love more".  That was surprising.  Why would a girl who just turned 7 think that?  What other gender stereotypes does she (and Elin) harbor?  So we decided to categorize each of the 23 emojis as male, female and neutral ("either").  The results are in the picture attached, and I can't say I disagree with their selections.  Their reasons are a culmination of everything they've heard and seen at school, with friends, family, parents, teachers, cartoons/movies, books, media et al.  It would be interesting to know at what age they'd form these biases.  According to various studies, children as young as 4 years old can form very strong gender stereotypes.

Here is a summary of their gender selection criteria, with detailed responses below:
Girl characteristics:  fall in love more, longer eye lashes, curved eye lashes, pink cheeks, shiny tongue, wink, day dream, blush (in pink), dimples, big eyes, small mouth, kissy lips

Boy characteristics:  Look cool (or try to), fight, get knocked out, big teeth, look mad, tiny eyes and eye brows, blush in blue (not pink), red eyes, no eye lashes, big mouth

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J:  Girl because girls fall in love more
J:  Girl because longer eye lashes
J:  It has a bow, lipstick and long eye lashes
J:  Boy because boys try to look cool and this one looks cool
J:  Girl because of long eye lashes
J:  Girl because of pink cheeks and tongue is shiny and is winking
J:  Girl because pink cheeks and when it smiles you can only see the teeth
J:  Boy because it looks like it was in a battle and got knocked out
J:  Girl because it has long eye lash (E: it has a dreamy look)
J:  Neither boy, nor girl because it's not cool, and it's not fancy
J: Boy because it has teeth big, mad open mouth (tiny eyes and eye brows)
J:  Boy because it's blushing blue

E:  Girl because it has a dimple just like the other obviously, and boys don't put hearts on their cheeks
E:  Girl because it's blushing
E:  Eyebrows are too long to be real without make-up
E:  Boy because teeth are showing and tongue is huge and it looks cool because eye brows
E:  Girl because lips too red to be natural (lipstick).  Long eye lashes, and it looks like it's dreaming
E:  That is soo a guy because small eyes and eye brows, big mouth, teeth are showing, big tongue
E:  Boy because small eye brows, red eyes and no eye lashes
E:  Girl because of blushy cheeks and kissy lips, and it has pink and red all over it, and looks like hypnotized by an expensive diamond necklace
E:  Girl because short eye lashes that are a little curved, and a dimple by the mouth and has a dreamy look

Disagree:
E:  Boy because mouth is wide open and teeth are visible, and tiny eye brows
J:  Girl because her eyes are like hearts

The Equestrian World

In February of this year (2017), Helena suggested we enroll the our two daughters in horseback riding classes in San Juan Capistrano.  My first reaction was one of sticker shock.  The cost of 4 classes of 1-hour each was $250 per child.  We can swing this for 1-2 months, I thought, and then one or both would lose interest as is the case with most extracurricular activities they engage in.

Mission Stable where the Bridges Equestrian herd is kept
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The first day of class I was introduced to a whole new world.  As soon as I walked into the Mission stable - pictured left - , I felt like I was on a western movie set.  I've always had a not so favorable impression of the high class equestrian society.  These poor animals were roaming the earth freely until 3,500 BCE when they were domesticated for transportation, agriculture and warfare.  In more developed countries, they are used for sports and entertainment.

The cost of maintaining one horse is ~$2,500 a month for housing, food, farrier (trim hooves + shoeing), health care without emergencies or sickness (these would cost thousands more), and this is not counting training expenses or purchase cost.

Peculiarly, all of the equestrians at this set of stables are females.  In fact, the groomers and trainers are all females as well.  The only sign of males could be found in the occasional stable hand passerby; the ones hauling hay etc.  Why is that??  I did some internet research and found that while female riders dominate the amateur ranks, males dominate professionals in a sport where females and males compete together.  No one knows the reason why, but the fact that males dominate professionals is reasonable given the level of aggressiveness and dominant behavior required to be successful in the sport.  Today, (4-8-2017) I asked Tara, my kids' instructor, about her opinion on the matter.  She thinks it's because males refuse to wear the tight pants required for riding.  Tara has been a part of the Bridges Equastrian since she was 8.  She works there as a full time instructor, and even spends her days off on premises.  She is great.

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On to the next item of interest:  How do horses feel about living a life partially in solitude quarters, ridden at the behest of owners and trainers, and castrated (gelded) to control masculine/aggressive behavior?  It turns out even though horses are herd animals, they can form a bond with humans or other animals, such as goats and sterile donkeys, and learn to live a satisfactory domesticated lifestyle.  The castrating (removing testicles) is not a psychological hindrance either since many male horses (stallions) do not mate in the wild.  A typical herd has one stallion to multiple mares.

And, what is the accident rate and severity in horseback riding?  The rate is similar to motorcycle riding.  80% of head injuries occur while mounted on a horse (the rest are on the ground when the horse kicks, typically the vet or farrier).   The rate of accidents in jumping and cross country eventing is higher than casual riding.  Over 100 deaths occur each year from head injuries out of 7 million riders in the U.S.  There are 10-20 times more non-fatal head injuries.  One study referenced 1 accident per 2,000 hours of riding.  With proper precaution and handling, this sport is less dangerous than many other common sports such as basketball.

A couple of fun facts:  Horses have a an average brain size of a tennis ball, they cannot breathe through their mouths, and they cannot vomit.

Johanna and Twinkle 4-2-2017 - Twinkle was in the movie The Princess and The Pony

Elin and Teddy 4-2-2017